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When the Psyche Protests: What Analysts such as James Hollis Teach Us About Anxiety, Depression, and Living an Authentic Life
“Psychopathology is the inner protest of our outer lives.” — James Hollis
This single sentence from Jungian analyst James Hollis captures something many people intuitively feel but struggle to articulate: sometimes psychological symptoms are not simply signs that something is “wrong” with us. Sometimes they are signs that something is wrong with the way we are living.
Modern culture often teaches people to view anxiety, depression, burnout, emptiness, or emotional numbness as problems to eliminate as quickly as possible. Certainly, psychological suffering deserves compassionate and evidence-based treatment. Yet Hollis invites us to ask a deeper question:
What if symptoms are also communications?
What if emotional distress is, at least in part, the psyche’s attempt to protest a life that has drifted too far from authenticity, meaning, connection, or truth?
This perspective does not romanticize suffering or deny biology. Conditions such as Major Depressive Disorder, trauma disorders, or anxiety disorders can involve genetics, neurobiology, developmental experiences, and environmental stressors. However, Hollis argues that psychological symptoms frequently emerge when people abandon essential parts of themselves in order to survive, belong, succeed, or avoid discomfort (Hollis, 1993).
In this sense, symptoms may not merely be dysfunctions. They may also be signals. This is a main underlying idea behind coherence therapy.
The Cost of Living an Outer Life
Many people spend years constructing an “outer life” that appears functional, successful, or socially acceptable while becoming increasingly disconnected from their inner world.
A person may:
* pursue achievement while feeling spiritually empty,
* remain in emotionally deadening relationships,
* suppress anger to appear agreeable,
* abandon creativity in favour of practicality,
* or organize life entirely around pleasing others.
Externally, life may appear stable. Internally, however, tension builds.
According to Jungian psychology, the psyche naturally moves toward wholeness and authenticity (Jung, 1968). When important emotions, needs, values, or aspects of identity are chronically ignored, symptoms may emerge as forms of compensation or protest.
For example:
* Anxiety may emerge when a person continually overrides their limits and boundaries.
* Depression may reflect profound disconnection from vitality, meaning, or agency.
* Chronic resentment may signal self-abandonment within relationships.
* Emotional numbness may develop after years of suppressing vulnerability or grief.
From this perspective, symptoms are not simply obstacles to eliminate. They may also contain information about how a person has learned to survive at the expense of fully living.
Why Modern Life Often Intensifies Psychological Conflict
Contemporary culture rewards performance, productivity, image management, and constant stimulation. Many people become highly skilled at functioning while losing touch with themselves.
Social approval can become more important than authenticity.
Busyness can replace reflection.
Achievement can replace meaning.
The result is that individuals may become strangers to their own inner lives.
Research increasingly supports the idea that experiential avoidance — the attempt to suppress or escape unwanted internal experiences — is strongly associated with psychological distress (Hayes et al., 2006). The more rigidly people avoid difficult emotions, uncertainty, vulnerability, or self-examination, the more psychological suffering tends to increase over time.
In other words, many symptoms worsen not simply because pain exists, but because people become disconnected from themselves while trying to avoid pain.
This is where therapies such as Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) offer particularly powerful approaches.
How Internal Family Systems (IFS) Understands the Inner Protest
Richard Schwartz developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy around the idea that the mind is made up of different “parts,” each attempting to protect the individual in some way (Schwartz & Sweezy, 2020).
From an IFS perspective, symptoms are rarely meaningless.
Anxiety, perfectionism, emotional shutdown, self-criticism, people-pleasing, anger, or compulsive behaviours are often understood as protective strategies developed to help a person survive emotional pain, rejection, shame, or trauma.
IFS suggests that many people become dominated by protective parts that once served an adaptive function but now create suffering.
For example:
* A perfectionistic part may attempt to prevent criticism or failure.
* A highly anxious part may try to keep a person vigilant and safe.
* A detached or numb part may protect against overwhelming emotional pain.
* A people-pleasing part may fear abandonment or rejection.
Rather than fighting these parts, IFS encourages curiosity and compassion toward them.
This aligns closely with Hollis’s idea that psychopathology is an “inner protest.” Symptoms are no longer viewed merely as pathology to suppress. Instead, they become understandable responses to unmet needs, unresolved wounds, and disowned emotional experiences.
IFS therapy helps individuals:
* identify protective patterns,
* understand the fears beneath symptoms,
* reconnect with wounded emotional experiences,
* and cultivate what Schwartz calls the “Self” — a grounded internal state characterized by calmness, clarity, compassion, and confidence (Schwartz & Sweezy, 2020).
When people develop a healthier relationship with their internal system, symptoms often soften because the psyche no longer needs to protest so loudly.
How Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Helps Resolve Inner Conflict
While IFS emphasizes healing wounded and protective parts, Steven C. Hayes and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focus on helping people stop fighting their internal experiences and start building lives guided by values and meaning (Hayes et al., 2012).
ACT proposes that much psychological suffering comes from psychological inflexibility:
* avoiding painful emotions,
* becoming fused with negative thoughts,
* disconnecting from the present moment,
* and abandoning personally meaningful action.
ACT does not promise the elimination of pain. Instead, it helps people develop the capacity to experience difficult thoughts and emotions without becoming controlled by them.
This is especially relevant to Hollis’s ideas because many people organize their lives around avoidance:
* avoiding rejection,
* avoiding uncertainty,
* avoiding conflict,
* avoiding grief,
* or avoiding vulnerability.
Over time, life becomes smaller and less authentic.
ACT helps individuals reconnect with core values and begin making choices aligned with who they genuinely want to be, even in the presence of discomfort.
For example:
* Someone trapped in perfectionism may learn to pursue growth rather than endless self-protection.
* Someone disconnected from relationships may begin risking emotional openness.
* Someone living according to others’ expectations may begin building a life guided by personal meaning instead of external validation.
Research consistently supports ACT as an effective treatment for anxiety, depression, stress, trauma-related symptoms, and psychological flexibility (A-Tjak et al., 2015).
Importantly, ACT reframes emotional pain. Distress is not necessarily evidence that a person is failing. Sometimes discomfort emerges precisely because a person is finally beginning to live more honestly.
Symptoms as Invitations Rather Than Enemies
One of the most transformative aspects of Hollis’s perspective is that it shifts the therapeutic question.
Instead of asking only:
“How do I eliminate this symptom?”
people may also begin asking:
“What is this symptom trying to tell me?”
This does not mean every symptom contains hidden wisdom or that all suffering should simply be interpreted symbolically. Severe mental health conditions require appropriate assessment and treatment. However, many emotional struggles do point toward deeper conflicts involving identity, meaning, boundaries, grief, authenticity, or unmet emotional needs.
When therapy works well, symptom reduction is often accompanied by something even deeper:
* greater self-awareness,
* increased authenticity,
* stronger boundaries,
* improved emotional flexibility,
* and a renewed sense of meaning.
In this sense, healing is not merely about becoming less symptomatic. It is about becoming more fully alive.
A Better Way Forward
James Hollis challenges a culture that often prioritizes appearance over authenticity and performance over meaning. His idea that “psychopathology is the inner protest of our outer lives” reminds us that symptoms may sometimes emerge when the self has been ignored for too long.
Both IFS and ACT offer powerful pathways for responding to this inner protest with curiosity rather than shame.
IFS helps individuals understand and heal the protective parts of themselves that developed in response to pain and survival.
ACT helps people stop organizing life around avoidance and begin moving toward values, meaning, and psychological flexibility.
Together, these approaches support something deeper than symptom management alone:
a more authentic relationship with oneself.
Sometimes psychological suffering is not simply a breakdown.
Sometimes it is the psyche insisting that something essential must change.
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References
A-Tjak, J. G. L., Davis, M. L., Morina, N., Powers, M. B., Smits, J. A. J., & Emmelkamp, P. M. G. (2015). A meta-analysis of the efficacy of acceptance and commitment therapy for clinically relevant mental and physical health problems. Psychotherapy and Psychosomatics, 84(1), 30–36.
Hayes, S. C., Luoma, J. B., Bond, F. W., Masuda, A., & Lillis, J. (2006). Acceptance and commitment therapy: Model, processes and outcomes. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 44(1), 1–25.
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Hollis, J. (1993). The middle passage: From misery to meaning in midlife. Inner City Books.
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